LEGACY 

A 10 Session Program to Command respect And Live on Purpose

(learn the difference from demanding respect)

Commit to breaking cycles of abuse for you & your lineage

Does any of this sound familiar?

  1. You made a promise to yourself that you would never be like the people who abused in your lineage (family system), yet when life gets too overwhelming, you lash out with your words & actions. You regret it afterwards.

  2. You notice yourself avoiding relationship challenges, nitpicking, or acting passive aggressively.

  3. You are afraid of hurting others and you don’t trust yourself fully.

  4. You’ve hurt someone you love, even when you didn’t mean to, and you don’t know how to stop.

  5. You still carry shame, from past acts of harm.

  6. You feel like you're stuck in a pattern of anger / rage, feeling out of control, and / or being emotionally shut down.

  7. You feel misunderstood & alone, but you can’t pinpoint why.

  8. You’ve been told you’re abusive, but deep down, you don’t want to be that person.

If any of this resonates, know this: you are not alone.

You can be the catalyst for change.

You’ve tried everything, but it’s still not working.

Here’s why:

  1. Your nervous system probably did not have enough experience of co-regulation with the people in your life growing up & you may not have been taught how to regulate your emotions or deal with triggers in healthy ways.

  2. Despite our greatest intentions, sometimes an unintegrated Shadow (unconscious) can run the show.

  3. You are an extension of your lineage & we cannot escape systemic patterns, we must face & integrate them.

  4. Old wounds and unresolved trauma may be driving your behaviors, keeping you stuck in harmful cycles.

  5. You don’t have the tools or compassionate support to truly shift your mindset, behaviors, and nervous system patterns.

  6. You feel shame and act out the guilt, but have no roadmap to transform that into meaningful growth & respect

THE TRUTH IS

Real change requires more than willpower. It requires a shift in the narratives we tell ourselves, real tangible experiences of our nervous systems responding confidently to triggers, and a compassionate space to actually transform shame.

“We cannot change anything until we accept it. Condemnation does not liberate, it oppresses."

Carl Jung

just Imagine…

  • You are responding to triggers anchored in confidence instead of being unhinged & out of control.

  • You are respected & living on purpose

  • You rebuilt trust with the people you’ve hurt, and enjoy fulfilling & healthy relationships.

  • You forgive yourself.

  • You feel alive with the energy liberated from your body & nervous system from what was once repressed / emotionally shutdown & use it constructively as a catalyst for change. Tension held in the jaw, nausea in the stomach, lower back pain & muscle aches etc, evolved to now feel relieved.

  • You trust yourself & step into discomfort, transforming relationship challenges into opportunities for meaningful growth & fulfillment.

  • You are the leader of your lineage, breaking cycles of harm and embodying the “Heart Warrior”, “King” and / or “Leader”, whichever Divine Masculine archetypes that you deep down know you can be.

Introducing

 The Legacy Program 

A 20 week transformational program designed to support men to stop abusive behaviours through co-regulation, cultivating emotional intelligence and integrating the Shadow.

What’s included:

  1. Nervous System Mapping and Regulation:
    Learn to recognize your triggers and create space between stimulus and response. Build a deep, attuned relationship with your body to stop abuse in its tracks.

  2. Emotional Intelligence Training:
    Develop self-awareness and tools to identify & express your emotions constructively. Learn how to recognize and respond to the emotions of others with intelligence.

  3. Integrate the Shadow & Empowering Archetypes Face & integrate the disowned aspects of self. Choose to embody archetypes that command respect & self-leadership.

  4. Cultivating Empathy and Relational Skills:
    Understand how your actions impact others and build the capacity for connection, compassion, and accountability.

  5. A Safe Space to foster REAL & meaningful Growth:
    Work one to one with an extraordinary professional in a supportive, confidential environment designed to catalyze change & alchemize shame.

  6. Practical Tools for Lasting Change:
    Receive exercises, techniques, and practices you can use every day to stay accountable and continue your growth beyond the program.

  7. BONUS: Option for a psychedelic assisted therapy session (s) to deepen integration, insights & awareness


This isn’t about blame or shame. It’s about empowerment, healing, and creating a future where you can show up as a partner, father & Person you are proud of.

The REsults You’ll Get

  • Be anchored in the confidence to respond with respect & love well, no matter how overwhelming life gets.

  • Shift the narratives that you & others are believing about yourself.

  • Be inspiring to your Community.

  • Build healthier, more connected & loving relationships.

  • Step into a life of integrity, accountability, and capacity to create peace.

  • Break the cycle of harm — for yourself and your family.

  • Restore your honour, wholeness and leave a legacy you can be proud of.

MEet your guide

This program is led by Turiya, a Registered Therapeutic Counselor with 14 years of experience helping individuals and families heal from violence, abuse, and trauma.

In 2010, Turiya began as a volunteer on a crisis line for survivors of violence. Her commitment shone through and she was invited to apply for a paid counseling position. She quickly excelled to Manager of the Women’s Safety & Outreach program, Downtown Eastside, Vancouver. Later, she was invited to be Manager of the Indigenous Women’s program.

After having offered health support for those impacted by the very first public hearing of The National Inquiry into Murdered & Missing Indigenous Women & Girls, she was invited to join the National Inquiry team.

Highly adaptable, resourceful, creative & compassionate, she held several roles with the Inquiry. Including as a statement gatherer, listening to the stories of survivors & family members for the information to be a part of the final report “Reclaiming Power & Place”

Over the years, she realized there were important gaps in services. Namely, not enough services effectively offering healing to men acting out abusively with true fierce compassion & accountability.

The Separation of survivors & abusers as good vs bad, maintains the cycle of shame & acting out in guilt. She is an advocate for restorative justice.

The dynamics of abuse are complex & also unique. So she curated a program that acknowledges the commonalities & honors a person’s unique experience, simultaneously.

Turiya brings a unique, compassionate perspective as someone who has dedicated her career & personal life to healing the impacts of violence & abuse. Her deep understanding of the nervous system, emotional intelligence, somatic healing & powerful Shadow integration allows her to guide clients through profound transformation.

While trained as an RTC in many Western Psychology modalities & psychedelic assisted therapies, she is also trained in the alchemical arts as a Spiritual Leader/Priestess. She possesses ancient wisdom that clarifies & offers a solution.

Alchemy is the process of unifying dualities, restoring wholeness & harmony. To be an alchemist, one courageously faces the “darkness”, liberating the gift within every challenge & cultivates the capacity to transform challenges into opportunities.

As a complex trauma survivor, (including being sex trafficked as a youth), Turiya has gone on the transformational journey of integrating disowned aspects of herself & is now- a leader of her lineage.

What this opens up for her clients is a more holistic & profound transformation, if they too, are interested in cultivating mastery in alchemy.

An interest in alchemy or spirituality is not a requirement for working with her, but a possibility if it speaks to you.

Her mission is to bridge the gap in services for gendered violence, working also with men who struggle with acting out abusively, and offering a path for embodied healing that actually stops cycles of harm at their root.

Are you ready to create a Legacy You are Proud of?

This program isn’t for everyone—it’s for men who are ready to take an honest & let’s be real - sometimes uncomfortable - look at themselves, step into accountability, and commit to real, lasting transformation.

Book a complimentary consultation and discover what’s possible.